first ticks first

So I happened to meet my friend Parth while having conversation with him I asked him why he was still single he said "Life has brought me down to a point where I have to analyse myself of what I deserve because set backs delays being alone and getting bitched about behind has been a part of life since a long 

Life has not been a smooth ride so far nothing to crib about but I have also understood off lately that re assessing what to prioritize and what to let go off may make it easier later .

I have no job I am 28 and there has been a lot of parental pressure about it 

So I made a to do list and decided to stick to it 

It had time for studying soft skills for my job to brushing up knowledge gained making time for ailing mother and teaching new aspiring candidates from my field it does not give me time to give to anything else so No girlfriend yet. When I wake up or think about life I don't get thought of being in a relationship with anyone so why waste time thinking stuff that doesn't come up to your mind in the first place."

On a clearer perspective when I look to it and think about it it's a wise thing to do things that tick off without second thought rather than doing things that require second thought I was so happy for the clear thought process he had and made my own first thought list 

I think everyone should try doing it cause if you can't keep life simple this will help you do that so just sit along with yourself assess your life hit the first ticks first and rest all is not important.

Simple but probably effective technique which will help all to go through tough phases and letting go off what's not needed.

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Krantikari vaimanik