I wanted to write on a topic that would give perspective to people on today's scenario. I remember those days when we met people after years and still had that warm bond, long distance relationships meant across the globe and not across the same city.
When people used to wait for letters to arrive for months and still relationships had less complications less conflicts and more warmth. I am not talking here just about husband wife or girlfriend boyfriend. relationship overall even parent son/daughter relationship were different.
Students studying abroad were constantly sending letters same with lovers what was so special that there were less conflicts then even though point of contact touch time was too long as opposed to now when you barely don't talk for a day the person feels that your love has lessened you have no feelings left and there begins the conflict
Is it our patience level that has been hampered because of quick access to communication features or its overall temperament of our generation that has changed.
This is worth a thought because most relationships (mindfully all relationships including Cousins, Brothers, sisters, parent- son/daughter relationship) even friendships have been ruined because of this. temperament where we expect 24*7 constant attention.
There's nothing wrong in it but what we should think about is that is our patience level on humanitarian basis gone so down that feelings come to realisation after the damage and its too late by then .
What according to you is causing this
Is this cause lack of self consciousness ?
Addiction of social media?
Addiction of frivolous attention?
Interestingly there is a lot of research on it but no implementation to control this
Social media creating dopamine boosting effect giving temporary pleasures but ruining our lives .
Will try to raise such topic again ,
Hope you all think about this ,
Do let me know your thoughts.
Thank you
Braveheart
