Have Gratitude

Have Gratitude

     There are many things in life we forget to be thankful of.If we carefully notice we all haven't yet thanked our significant people in life or we rarely have expressed gratitude towards them.Start from simple things say our nursery teacher who taught us the basics do you remember any post or going to meet her after you have graduated.Well very few people have done that.So my this blog for a guy who wants to express gratitude to a person maybe not one of his acquaintances but someone who just cleared his block of mind state.
   Amrit has been my great friend since last 2 years and right since the time I know him he has been writing great poems.He began writing poems at the age 12 as life progressed he became good at it maybe so good that he could make poems out of any word.Until a few months back he suddenly got a block just like someone had build a dam on a river to saturate it's water . He came up to me asking for what should he do to get out of that state.I asked him what's the problem He cried out telling me that he started writing poems because of his teacher who is now suffering Alzheimer's she has started forgetting everything and everyone and she was his poetic inspiration.I suggested him to breathe and relax it's alright you will write again don't worry. A month ago he posted his new poems and they were nice they reminded me of my old buddy Amrit.I asked him did he find his inspiration He told me that he found a girl in newspaper and for no reason she became his inspiration to write again at the very moment he asked me to write this blog to thank her and express his gratitude to her. He also thanked me.
Right since that day I have seen Amrit thanking and expressing gratitude to everyone. Daily during bus travel he thanks conductor.At airport he thanks cleaners.At hotels  waiters.
Since that day he has made people happy and that is how life is meant to be lived gratitude should be expressed for every wonderful thing in life.
Right from the time you wake up daily to the time you sleep you/we must be thankful.
Because what we have many dream of it and what we don't have always aim for it but never forget expressing small gestures of gratitude.
Concluding my blog here
By expressing my gratitude towards that girl who gave Amrit his inspiration.
And expressing gratitude to everyone in my life.
Thank you .

It was you that made myself me ;
It was you that set me free .

You made my thoughts clear ;
You made fear disappear .

You made me love ;
You made me like a peaceful dove.

You made me write again ;
You made me fight again ;

I did it because you all were here ;
All this for thanking you my every near and dear.

Braveheart.

Have No Regret

Have No Regret
 I was on mini vacation in Mumbai at my hometown meeting friends and relatives .
While returning to Delhi had nothing so exceptional to do inflight so started writing this.
Life has been so wonderful since birth looking at positive side of every situation faced had made me something or had given me something to rejoice.
So beginning with this thought of "no regret"  I have two situations not mine but someone I know closely.
It was May this year things turned around for Arpit he got a transfer to Jammu from Delhi and was left by his girlfriend for having less income so this was a state of disgust in his life he even went on to try taking sleeping pills to end up his life but somehow was saved by that no regret idea of mine.
I had a talk to him "Arpit do you think your transfer to Jammu is better for your future?". He replied "well of course yes it will give me promotion ". "Then don't regret leaving delhi stop the unnecessary thought hampering your growth " I convinced him with this statement ."about your breakup  well did she love you ?". "Well maybe yes ,maybe no " he replied in a grin. "Well what's point in that maybe a year of your relationship you spend time with her family visit her native help her parents gave all what you could in every possible manner yet there remains maybe ?.Is it worth regretting is that what a true relationship is without a fail when you have given your all in it yet there's a doubt about love fact is simple ask anyone does any stranger or maybe best friend too visit her place every week in her absence to look up to her parents loneliness okay well she might define it as your show off chuck that, does her best friend travel out of airport 11pm at night along with his parents just to accommodate or accompany along her parents when he has a flight option in immediate next flight?. Does her best friend or any relative care to elastocrape her  twisted leg and support her? Does anyone finds excuses to talk to her without reason ?.Well my friend you have done this all not your loss it's her loss well there are plenty who will earn more than you but there will be only few who ll care like you so have no regret for that doubt instead be happy you did your part it wasn't maybe noticed or maybe there was just a search for perfection rather than affection ". Arpit was happy and smiling he hugged me and was promoted as ACM within 2 months and was paid double his Ex by then .I know this is so easy to tell people and difficult to digest but I did that to Arpit he needed me maybe just a light on his positive aspect.
Life is simple have no regret nice people are difficult to find treasure them Audi can be earned at age of 40 world can be travelled life long material success is not life. Life is choosing wise and humanitarian valued people over rest imperfections.
People who choose good people end up happy
People who loose them end up on the other side some or the other time.
But above all life is to be lived without having regrets and without being egoistic and false proud about things you have they increase burden on brain and ultimately ruin what is called decision power of choosing wise.
Well I am no one to write this philosophy but just a thought in a long 2 hour flight from BOM to DEL
I hope you like it.
And coming soon with next blog " have gratitude "
Until next time readers have no regret.
Keep smiling be happy.

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Point Of View

Incident that flashes my mind.

A girl and a guy were descending from escalator steps in a mall.At the very bottom boys shoe lace tangled in gapped end of escalator step girl panicked and was about to cry as she thought that it will hurt boy's hand or will cost him a new shoe but guy stayed calm and pressed emergency stop button of that escalator causing it to stop immediately and boy removed lace unwinding it from gap easily .
Point is nothing but situations are and will always be tough all you need is to have patience and right point of view to sort out things in life.
A panicked state of mind will always make you think like a looser,
While on the other hand a calm positive point of view will always help you to complete task and face difficulties properly .
           Another such incident of point of view is being in a state to visualise goal but not to be disheartened by failures in process to achieve them ,You plan to sit for a tough exam but are not able to crack some of question's in it always try to look for those question's which you are sure can't go wrong instead of wandering around the one which will ostracise you from positive thought process.
Failing in first stage of anything be it your school exam or maybe exam's like few those held in IT companies during training post placement should not isolate you from following process of your dreams neither should they effect your personal life or professional goal because it's life that ultimately matters not your first professional exam. You ll always have opportunities in life maybe some you will be able to grab easily and some won't come in your fence no matter how hard you try but this should not fade your efforts because if you can't grab an opportunity build it.
Just follow the process keep mind off unnecessary things which occupy your mind away from few silly things which won't matter after 5 years down the line.
        Presently what makes me write this is a reason that I recently discovered about this process and have seen people getting better day by day following this.
          So just a positive blog with a short positive story and a little positive lesson
Hope you all will like this . Just my way to tell my friends a good thing which I learned.

Braveheart
   
     

It's All About Heart

Life is beautiful only if everything we do is from our heart ultimately it's all about heart
     Kia and Me best of friends since our higher secondary school.Kia was a handicap girl only physically but she was stronger than any other person in the entire universe at age of 22 she had already won over 300 gold  medals in national level chess competition's.I was always amused by her moves barely 3 minutes of game and I used to be check mate.Ocassionaly to distract her and uplift my chances to win I use to sing loudly so that she looses her focus and atleast once I would win,But kia had superb concentration and I always ended up loosing .
I once asked her "Kia tell me how do you manage to concentrate so much on your game?".Kia told me something worth a lifetime she said "Remember our childhood buddy we use to write A B C and show it to our elders and they use to praise us not every time we wrote it right but yet we were appreciated because we did that with all our heart.I didn't win as many medals as many matches I have lost but all I didn't loose is hope and never gave up".
These few lines taught me what it takes to make you best in anything its your heart.

Kia is pursuing Phd in chess now a days at Oxford university and Me fixing airplanes with all my heart.

And this blog brings up all those positive things my mates taught me so thats all for this write up
 "Ek suraj nikla tha,
 kuchh para pighla tha
 Ek aandhee aayee thee,
jab dil se aah niklee thee
 Dil se re."
Achieve everything with heart because life is all about heart.



Braveheart

Depth of Life

Out of things to express!!This had never happened with me since a long time.Writing about matters of heart from heart is what I did frequently and believed in continuing so but frankly had run out of things to express, until I met  my friend Maya.
Maya a girl I knew since college days well not much in touch after our higher secondary we met accidentally on friendsbook while talking to her I began to understand how much depth life has how  to live it to the fullest.Finding joys in small yet significant things was one of it,It was Maya's birthday month she had already begun countdown for it.She woke every day with a smile and set new goals for the day.Many people do that but she had special ways to find joy and I just loved the way she did it. She appreciated self made stuffs, confident to flaunt herself in every manner and above all had a heart which knew caring and nurturing good people.She had faced a very traumatic situation in past and looking at her recover rather rediscover herself in such a way was something inspirational.
Another such example of depth of life was Vicky a 16 year old guy who worked at a mess near my house at Delhi. Vicky had aged father in eighties. Youngest son amongst his brother's ,Unfortunately all amongst his family except his father were dead in a fatal accident he had no option left at his end and had to support his aged father by working,Yet he never complained about his state always had a big smile on his face when once asked by me about the reason behind his smile he said "sir,god has gifted me a life no matter how worse situations get but it's his gift so why cry and  insult his present".This simple yet lovely thought is motivating and yes so is my blog this time maybe not too much in it yet a lot too much in it.
Nothing much extraordinary yet so above ordinary people Maya and Vicky
In the end I ll say
"Abhi mujhme kahi baaki thodisi hai zindagi
Jagi dhadkan nayi jaana zinda hoon mai to abhi."
keep your spirit's high always.celebrate what is gifted and smile.

Gifting this blog to Maya (name changed), as her birthday gift and am blessed to have inspiring friends like you.

Braveheart .....